Category Archives: Submission

Saying no…a lesson in personal power and submission

I am writing this from a male dominant/female submissive perspective because that is my world view. However, I believe that it applies to any combination of dominant and submissive. I am not intentionally excluding anyone, just using specific pronouns for ease of writing. When I first became aware of the online world of BDSM, I

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Care, Feeding, and Maintenance of a Top – From a submissive Perspective

I wrote this in February 2009 while still talking long distance with Sir before we were physically together. I’m leaving it intact, even though much of it sounds so simplistic and single-minded. It still has some important information, and it’s awesome to read this now and see how much I’ve grown as a person and

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