Punishment isn’t just corporal. It can involve many different things. Is punishment part of your dynamic? If so, what form does it take? If not, how is willfull disobedience handled? What if you forget or something else happens to keep you from executing assignments? How is not doing what is asked/demanded of you handled?
What constitutes service to you? Do you see a difference between normal tasks or chores and actual service? What acts of service does your owner ask/demand of you? What acts of service would you like to be able to perform but can’t either because you lack the skill or your owner does not allow it?
Are there rituals you have within your relationship? What are they? Were they suggested by you or your Master/Mistress? What ritual would you like to have that you currently do not have? Are rituals important to you? How do they make you feel?
What does submission mean to you? What does your submission look like? Describe the actions, thoughts, and traits that describe submission to you.
I have been asked a question that has led me to some rather deep introspection. And so I decided to answer her question in the form of a journal entry rather than just respond lightly to her question. How do you know you are ‘slave’? That was not an easy question for me for a
I will never qualify as a ‘twu’ slave, according to the internet. When you live with someone, no matter the dynamic, things like PMS, work, teenagers, family, and just plain snarky moods happen. I strive for perfection, but live in reality. That means sometimes I’m snarky, sometimes I don’t do my job, sometimes I’m not
I’ve been sitting here this morning kind of in some zone, coming down from the incredible weekend. I can feel myself dropping, but it’s not a negative drop in any way. It’s sort of a processing kind of drop. Master Onye’s words keep going through my head: “You are in exactly the right place at
The dictionary defines ‘transparency’ as “the quality or state of being transparent.” Transparent is defined as “easy to see through, understand, or recognize; obvious.” How does that correlate to being transparent in a relationship? Ultimate relationship transparency means that you reveal all of your true self to your partner. Nothing hidden. It creates a deeper
You will see me use the phrase ‘due diligence’ a lot in my writing. It is something I believe in very strongly. And something that most people don’t do, which always just amazes me. In both the online world and in real life, I see dominants and submissives both jumping into all of this D/s
This post was prompted by a post on Fetlife asking about slaves and limits – not doing things just because the D-type gets enjoyment from it, but because things have a purpose. Slavery isn’t about limits or doing things just because. Slavery for me is about surrendering to the will of another. When you surrender