Author: beach

Is punishment part of your dynamic?

Punishment isn’t just corporal. It can involve many different things. Is punishment part of your dynamic? If so, what form does it take? If not, how is willfull disobedience handled? What if you forget or something else happens to keep you from executing assignments? How is not doing what is asked/demanded of you handled?

What constitutes service?

What constitutes service to you? Do you see a difference between normal tasks or chores and actual service? What acts of service does your owner ask/demand of you? What acts of service would you like to be able to perform but can’t either because you lack the skill or your owner does not allow it?

Do you have rituals?

Are there rituals you have within your relationship? What are they? Were they suggested by you or your Master/Mistress? What ritual would you like to have that you currently do not have? Are rituals important to you? How do they make you feel?

I will never qualify as a ‘twu’ slave

I will never qualify as a ‘twu’ slave, according to the internet. When you live with someone, no matter the dynamic, things like PMS, work, teenagers, family, and just plain snarky moods happen. I strive for perfection, but live in reality. That means sometimes I’m snarky, sometimes I don’t do my job, sometimes I’m not

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What is Transparency?

The dictionary defines ‘transparency’ as “the quality or state of being transparent.” Transparent is defined as “easy to see through, understand, or recognize; obvious.” How does that correlate to being transparent in a relationship? Ultimate relationship transparency means that you reveal all of your true self to your partner. Nothing hidden. It creates a deeper

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What is Due Diligence?

You will see me use the phrase ‘due diligence’ a lot in my writing. It is something I believe in very strongly. And something that most people don’t do, which always just amazes me. In both the online world and in real life, I see dominants and submissives both jumping into all of this D/s

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