Author: beach

2013 Reflection

Each year, as the year comes to a close, I reflect on the ending year and make goals for the coming year. This year, as I reflect, has been both better and worse than years past. And I’m so ready for it to be over.

How do you bring balance to your world?

As slaves, we are often at the beck and call of our owners, which means we may have periods of time when we have little time to ourselves. How do you keep yourself balanced and grounded? What have you found that works for you to help you relax, balance, and find peace?

What are your holiday traditions?

As slaves, we often are only allowed to shop and plan based on our Master’s desires. Are you allowed to buy gifts for your Master? What kind of holiday traditions do you celebrate? Do you celebrate with vanilla family and does this change how you interact? What protocols do you covertly observe when in vanilla

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How does your submissive garden grow?

Is personal growth important to you as a submissive/slave? What ways have you found to foster learning and growth? Classes? Journaling? Reading? Discussions? Does your owner encourage or require you to do activities that foster growth? If personal growth isn’t important to you or your owner, why do you consider it to be unimportant?